Grace in the Weeds

Grace in the Weeds

Purity Club Dropout:The Joy of Being a Heretic

We were taught that being ‘right’ was the ticket to heaven. But I’m starting to realize that God isn’t a professor grading a theology exam.

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Jan 27, 2026
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The Architecture of the “Purity Club”

Nice girls don’t do that! Nice girls don’t argue, talk that way, dress like that, or act that way. At least, that’s what I was taught growing up in an evangelical church. My church loudly claimed to love like God does, while subjecting us to an awful lot of spoken and unspoken rules. As a pastor’s kid, this was even …

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